As the saying goes – Laughter is the best medicine. When faced with the stresses of everyday life, laughing not only helps us feel better but can be the sexiest thing a person can do. In every relationship, we tend to connect with our partner over things that make us chuckle and gradually let our guard down, showing our true selves. Novelty items are a perfect little gift to purchase for any stage in a relationship (without breaking the bank!)

Dos- Mirror your new relationship with a gift that reflects this stage. Think simple & sweet but don’t spend over $15-30. Flowers and candy are classic ways of expressing your intrigue. Don’ts- While it’s a nice way to show that you’re excited at the prospect of a new relationship, don’t go overboard. Stay away from things that are not only costly but inappropriate as well. Steer clear of expensive jewelry, or trinkets.

Do’s- Get them something you can both enjoy together. Movie tickets or a gift certificate to their favorite restaurant can add a level of intimacy and texture to your relationship while providing activities you can do as a pair. Don’ts- Unless you’re ready to get back into dating scene, stay away from exercise equipment, self-help books or cleaning products. Good gift-giving requires a well thought out plan. Brainstorm. When it’s the thought that counts, make it count!

Break free from the everyday routine by surprising him/her with a mini-vacation. Between kids, household chores, and work, it’s a nice change of pace to find a new atmosphere, relax, and reconnect. On a budget? Book a local hotel room, dim the lights and enjoy some romantic time. Spice up the passion by relishing the ambience of being someplace outside your comfort zone. Keep the vacation going by buying her a nice terry cloth robe or personalized wine bucket filled with ice next to the tub.